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Dvar for Chaye Sarah (Genesis 23:1-25:18)

SP
Short, practical, relevant Weekly Dvar
Thu, Nov 1, 2018 9:03 PM

This short, practical Lelamed Dvar is also available in your local App
Store (iTunes and Android). I hope you enjoy this Dvar adapted from the
work of Rabbi Jonathan Sacks...


In the week’s Parsha, Chaye Sarah, there lies a hidden story behind the
story, with three clues in our Parsha. The first clue is when Rivka first
sees Yitzchak, we are told that he is coming from Be’er Lachai Ro-i
(24:62), a fact not relevant to the story, and seemingly insignificant. The
second clue is that after Sarah’s death and Avraham’s mourning of her
passing, while we would expect Avraham to walk into the sunset of his life,
we are told that Avraham then married a woman named Keturah and has six
children, with no further mention of her or their children. The third clue
is that when Avraham did pass away, he was buried next to Sarah by Yitzchak
and Yishmael (25:8-10). Where did Yishmael come from, and where has he been
until now?

The Midrash pieces together the underlying story, and its meaning. The
sages point out that Be’er Lachai Ro-i is the spot where Hagar prayed for
her son Yishmael to be saved, and where Yitzchak went to search for Hagar
after his mother died, hoping to find his father a wife. They also explain
that Avraham did end up marrying Hagar, now named Keturah because “her acts
produced frangrance”. Yishmael was present at Avraham’s burial, suggesting
that this resulted in Avraham and Yishmael getting along. These facts
provide context to their complex relationships, and more importantly, their
ability to resolve their differences. May the story of our past provide
hope for our future.

Shlomo Ressler


Quotation of the Week:
"The first to apologize is the bravest. The first to forgive is the
strongest. The first to forget is the happiest."

This short, practical Lelamed Dvar is also available in your local App Store (iTunes and Android). I hope you enjoy this Dvar adapted from the work of Rabbi Jonathan Sacks... _______________________________________________ In the week’s Parsha, Chaye Sarah, there lies a hidden story behind the story, with three clues in our Parsha. The first clue is when Rivka first sees Yitzchak, we are told that he is coming from Be’er Lachai Ro-i (24:62), a fact not relevant to the story, and seemingly insignificant. The second clue is that after Sarah’s death and Avraham’s mourning of her passing, while we would expect Avraham to walk into the sunset of his life, we are told that Avraham then married a woman named Keturah and has six children, with no further mention of her or their children. The third clue is that when Avraham did pass away, he was buried next to Sarah by Yitzchak and Yishmael (25:8-10). Where did Yishmael come from, and where has he been until now? The Midrash pieces together the underlying story, and its meaning. The sages point out that Be’er Lachai Ro-i is the spot where Hagar prayed for her son Yishmael to be saved, and where Yitzchak went to search for Hagar after his mother died, hoping to find his father a wife. They also explain that Avraham did end up marrying Hagar, now named Keturah because “her acts produced frangrance”. Yishmael was present at Avraham’s burial, suggesting that this resulted in Avraham and Yishmael getting along. These facts provide context to their complex relationships, and more importantly, their ability to resolve their differences. May the story of our past provide hope for our future. Shlomo Ressler _______________________________________________ Quotation of the Week: "The first to apologize is the bravest. The first to forgive is the strongest. The first to forget is the happiest."