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Parshat Vayeshev relays that when Yosef recounted his second dream to his
father (of the sun, moon and stars bowing to him), Yakov rebuked him
(37:10). As Jonathan Gewirtz asks, why didn’t Yosef tell his father about
his first dream? Also, why was Yakov so angry at Yosef, who merely had a
dream, when in contrast he was not angry when Shimon and Levi killed the
entire city of Shechem (34:30)?
One possible answer comes from a Maharshal that says that “most dreams
follow their interpretations.” When Yosef shared his first dream with his
brothers, their response unwittingly interpreted his dream when they
responded “will you rule over us?” However, after the second dream they
remained silent, so Yosef shared it with his father. Yakov was aware of the
power of his interpretation, which is why he cloaked his interpretive
response with anger when he said “shall it come to pass?...”, with the
intention to deflect the brothers’ animosity toward Yosef. Yakov’s fierce
response shows us the heightened sensitivity we need to have toward
interactions among those around us and their perspectives.
Perhaps that’s why on Chanukah we celebrate the miracle of the oil, as
opposed to the victory over the Greeks. Being mindful of others’
perspective, viewpoints and feelings will help us focus on the positive
things in life, like diversity of opinions, shared goals and common dreams.
Shlomo Ressler
Quotation of the week:
"FEAR has two meanings: Forget Everything And Run, or Face Everything And
Rise."
This Lelamed Dvar is also available in your local App Store (iTunes and
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Parshat Vayeshev relays that when Yosef recounted his second dream to his
father (of the sun, moon and stars bowing to him), Yakov rebuked him
(37:10). As Jonathan Gewirtz asks, why didn’t Yosef tell his father about
his first dream? Also, why was Yakov so angry at Yosef, who merely had a
dream, when in contrast he was not angry when Shimon and Levi killed the
entire city of Shechem (34:30)?
One possible answer comes from a Maharshal that says that “most dreams
follow their interpretations.” When Yosef shared his first dream with his
brothers, their response unwittingly interpreted his dream when they
responded “will you rule over us?” However, after the second dream they
remained silent, so Yosef shared it with his father. Yakov was aware of the
power of his interpretation, which is why he cloaked his interpretive
response with anger when he said “shall it come to pass?...”, with the
intention to deflect the brothers’ animosity toward Yosef. Yakov’s fierce
response shows us the heightened sensitivity we need to have toward
interactions among those around us and their perspectives.
Perhaps that’s why on Chanukah we celebrate the miracle of the oil, as
opposed to the victory over the Greeks. Being mindful of others’
perspective, viewpoints and feelings will help us focus on the positive
things in life, like diversity of opinions, shared goals and common dreams.
Shlomo Ressler
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Quotation of the week:
"FEAR has two meanings: Forget Everything And Run, or Face Everything And
Rise."