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Dvar for Vayetzei (Genesis 28:10-32:3)

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Short, practical, relevant Weekly Dvar
Thu, Nov 19, 2015 3:06 PM

This Lelamed Dvar is also available in your local App Store (iTunes and
Android). As you hopefully enjoy this Dvar, it would be nice to share these
thoughts with as many people as you can think of, either via email which I
will gladly include in these distributions, or by word-of-mouth...


In this week’s Parsha, Vayetzei, the Torah relates how when Leah had her
fourth son, Rachel became envious. The obvious question is why wasn't
Rachel jealous when Leah has her first three sons. As Living Each Week
explains, Leah named her first three sons based on her emotions; that 1)
now her husband will love her, and 2) now she won't be disliked, and 3) now
my husband will have to help me. But it is the fourth one that got to
Rachel. When Leah named her son “Because now I can be grateful to G-d”,
that’s when Rachel became envious. Rachel realized that she couldn't
achieve the same level of gratitude to G-d that Leah could. How incredible
a virtue! To want to have a reason to thank Hashem, just for the sake of
thanking Him.

We have three chances a day to thank G-d through prayer, if we do it with
enough meaning and concentration. We can all emulate Rachel’s desire to
show gratitude by studying prayer, learning about ourselves from them, and
improving ourselves through them.

Shlomo Ressler


Quotation of the Week:
“You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized
how seldom they do.” — Eleanor Roosevelt

This Lelamed Dvar is also available in your local App Store (iTunes and Android). As you hopefully enjoy this Dvar, it would be nice to share these thoughts with as many people as you can think of, either via email which I will gladly include in these distributions, or by word-of-mouth... _______________________________________________ In this week’s Parsha, Vayetzei, the Torah relates how when Leah had her fourth son, Rachel became envious. The obvious question is why wasn't Rachel jealous when Leah has her first three sons. As Living Each Week explains, Leah named her first three sons based on her emotions; that 1) now her husband will love her, and 2) now she won't be disliked, and 3) now my husband will have to help me. But it is the fourth one that got to Rachel. When Leah named her son “Because now I can be grateful to G-d”, that’s when Rachel became envious. Rachel realized that she couldn't achieve the same level of gratitude to G-d that Leah could. How incredible a virtue! To want to have a reason to thank Hashem, just for the sake of thanking Him. We have three chances a day to thank G-d through prayer, if we do it with enough meaning and concentration. We can all emulate Rachel’s desire to show gratitude by studying prayer, learning about ourselves from them, and improving ourselves through them. Shlomo Ressler _______________________________________________ Quotation of the Week: “You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” — Eleanor Roosevelt